There is nothing better than pickin on a nice day with some friends and family.  This is how bluegrass pickers get together.  Being in this kind of environment makes me less nervous (than being on stage) and I learn a lot more by watching people play (if i am playing or not).  I do wish i could do this more often.  Even if it is to take pictures or enjoy the music.  If I had a place of my own I would definately host pickin parties like these.  Especially when the weather is nice.